The Reluctant Hot Wife: "Stealing Innocence" (The Reluctant Hot Wife Series Book 1)

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I agree with everyone else that this guy is being really disrespectful, and that this behavior is potentially grounds for a divorce. Oh I did. But he kept saying 'Next spring it'll be better, honey, and then I will have more time to spend with you.' It went on like that for 4 years and I had enough. I needed to get out." What makes you think I really want this divorce? I am not the one who left. I loved you six months ago when you walked that door and I love you now." Fiction Writing | Blog Writing | Creative Writing | Essay Writing | Letter Writing | Poetry Writing | Technical Writing | Story Writing No, you're not over-reacting in the least! You've told him very clearly from the get-go that this isn't for you and never will be, and he is ignoring who YOU ARE and badgering you repeatedly. That is disrespectful of him, no matter what the topic is. And I suspect that this last incident was the proverbial straw: please don't even think about blaming yourself for having the reaction you did. Your feelings are your feelings...and maybe it just took some time for them to percolate and for you to put words to why this upsets you so much.

I'd be more upset than you seem here; I don't think you're overreacting at all. Not only is he harassing you for a sex act after you've told him no a hundred times, he's totally changed the terms of your marriage and he's refusing to give you anything you've asked for. Here's some Dan Savage on the topic. At first he agreed with you - the husband should drop it - then his readers shared stories about how "hot wife" fantasies can be indulged without actual adultery. Original advice column, follow up 1, follow up 2.That's very true, from the OP's perspective and from the perspective of anyone with the slightest rationality. I'm almost tempted for you to get him to see that this is a terrible idea- if for instance, you'd sleep with someone you knew well, who was single and had a crush on you-and didn't specifically fantasize about you being married- boom, there goes the marriage, up in flames. You have to very specifically find the type of person who is only interested in sex and probably part of the kink community to even make this work at all. Even then, things can go wrong. That night, she called her friend Jill. "He finally did it. I can't believe after being separated for six months he finally signed them." That still gives him an opening to try to convince you that it's not disrespectful because it's empowering to you, and that in fact he thinks you're more than adequate, which is why he wants to see you do sexy things, and it would strengthen your marriage because blah blah blah.

But how? When?" Jill was so confused and yet, so happy for her friend. "Maybe now Charlotte can find what she has been searching for," Jill thought to herself quietly. No, I can't. I have given you five years with nothing to gain. I can't do that again." With that reply, Charlotte turned on her heels and left.

Oh, I'm fine. I guess I fell asleep. Thank you for coming to get me. I hate to ask this but what is your name again," Charlotte asked laughing. Sounds to me like you still love him. Why again do you want a divorce?" Jill said with humor in her voice. She had thought those two belonged together. She was supportive of her friend, despite the fact that she didn't agree about the divorce. People get pretty interesting about sex. It's my belief that some sexual desires get kind of fixated, but he might be quite satisfied with other sexual excitement, like costumes, toys, you being more or less dominant than usual, different location, whatever. If you want, and only if you want, perhaps some sexual diversions would be a pleasant distraction. Since we were all down to our undies…. me with both bra and panties we decided to add another rule. The wine was no doubt helping in our decision making, and I was hoping to possibly get nasty with Dave, and was hoping that Barry wouldn’t mind. From the way he was looking at Sherri I didn’t think it would be a problem. Our next rule said the winner got to take off the article of clothing and fondle the loser on any exposed area. I would seriously ask him this question. And I would seriously call a marriage counselor. I get that he has a fetish and that's fine, but you should not be pressured into doing something that doesn't also work for you when you feel it compromises how you feel about yourself. This isn't like "Try this butt plug once and see if you like it," this is "Please do something you will probably hate that will leave an indelible effect on how you feel about yourself, forever."

Then he popped his head in the door and said, "so! How are you two getting along?" SURPRISE! Boy was I ever. But they didn't quite get the reaction they were hoping for... Alex thought to start the conversation off slow and easy. "So how have you been? It has been awhile." He told my hand and placed in over his crotch pressing himself against me and making it obvious that he had a partial erection! I smiled and we kissed! We made love and I played with the thought of making love to a different man. The fantasy wasn't necessarily a different fantasy but now it was a possible fantasy and I found the thought very exciting. He forfeited his right to be resentful about your boundaries by not being honest with you about his fantasies early on and giving you both an opportunity to figure out if this would be a dealbreaker.Hello, Charlotte," Alex said with sunshine in his voice. "Nice to see you doing well. So, what do I owe this pleasure?" Charlotte inhaled deeply, thinking that maybe things wouldn't be so bad after all. "You're right. This isn't the end of the world. Thank you for being for being there for me." I guess what I'm saying is, you can use his attitude towards cheating as leverage here. Perhaps that you are so faithful and really don't like the idea actually is what makes him feel safe enough to ask, in a twisted way. You see what I mean? If you liked the idea...if you used it as a way out of the marriage...if the other man really liked you...would he want it then? I feel like my head is going to explode. And my body is so sore." My god, she thought. The baby! "My baby, is it alright?"

Given the symptoms you described and the tests that we ran, this is the final diagnosis. You are about six weeks along, I would estimate. See the secretary out front and she will schedule an appointment for an ultrasound. I do hope this is happy news for you and your husband."Per my posting above, I'd just let the specifics of his obsession be. It is what it is. The issue isn't what he wants, it's how he sees you. And that, alas, seems to be as an empty shell to portray the fantasies in his head, regardless of your own feelings and desires. And (whatever those fantasies might be), that's not only not loving, it's not humane. Especially the way he's gone about it. Don't worry. I've got that at least. I have a housekeeper so you won't have to lift a finger. Just take it easy."